Resilient Millionaire "A Winning Mindset"
Tonja Demoff
Virtual Consulting Group, LLC a TX based company has the exclusive right to roll out the Resilient Millionaire Training Program. I'm excited to offer this training in conjunction with The Virtual Consulting Group and via the Q & A Realty Group, Inc a California based real estate firm. Our last real estate economic down turn left many people asking themselves "what the heck happened"? The questions are great, they allow us to reflect but they don't help us make changes.
To make significant changes in our "situations" we must change our thinking about the situation and take action. Most people want to keep asking the questions "why did this happen", "what made me make that decision", "how could this happen to me", "how could I have been so stupid", OR they choose to blame someone for their poor choices and by the way most people only see poor choices when things go wrong, because when they go right it couldn't possible have been a "poor choice" or a "bad decision" because they are usually happy.
Resilient Millionaire Training focuses on taking responsibility for your choices, owning your decisions and seeing the world in a way that only you have the power to keep yourself down NOT anyone else!
I know its hard to believe that you got into your situation because of your choices but it's true... really, nobody did it to you. Sure you may have been hurt by the actions of others but you chose those people in your life and you interacted with them. Yes you may have invested with them or bought a home, a car or loaned them money but REALLY... is it all their fault?
If you get real and examine what your part in the equation is you will see that you made choices and those choices were more significant than saying "yeah I got involved with blah, blah, blah" or "I'm a poor judge of character, a push over, I trusted them..." Both of those perspectives are simply a way of excusing your own responsibility and it allows you blame someone else so you don't have to see yourself and your choices.
Rarely have I seen a person who has lost money not look to another to blame them. Heck, an attorney, who was my law school contracts professor and my girlfriend at the time invested money to own part of my downline in a multi-level marketing endeavor, she even drafted the agreement for me and another investor and then claimed that I scammed her. I think she forgot that she was the attorney. The company that we represented (Zeek Rewards) was determined months later to be a scam in itself and thousands of investors lost money. Rondee, the attorney wanted her money back from me never thinking about the fact that we gave that money to others to invest so I didn't have it. You see having the others invest helped build the downline, she never thought about me, just about getting her money back. When I tried to discuss it with her the only mantra she repeated was "give me my money back" and wouldn't talk, she was so offended that I in her mind had scammed her".
What happens in the mind of a person who experiences financial loss that often times doesn't allow them to see the "facts", calmly discus the situation that took place and work it out? Everyone of us have "triggers"- financial issues get to the CORE (another book/training program of mine) of our triggers and can elevate or devestate.
The universe has a way of "cleaning house" in our life if we will allow it, be conscious of it and prepare ourselves for the dynamic effect of choosing a more conscious path. The Resilient Millionaire Book is truly a must have in your arsenal of "mental must have strategies" to ensure that your mindset is prepared for the challenges most of us face in living life.
Tonja we are all evolving to be who we want to become. It is clear to see you are moving toward your own moment in time for that transformation and discovery of the power that lies within. You deserve the best life possible. Thank you for believing in yourself and sharing your journey so we can can experience your positive energy and lessons you are able to share.
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